爱一个人不需要拥有
相信在很多人的眼里，除了事业和家庭以外，爱情可以说是不可缺少的东西。但我却发现自己不是这么渴望爱情，也不会为了恋爱而恋爱。可能要找到一个自己喜欢，却又合得来的真的很难，最重要的是她也喜欢你，更是难上加难。
前几次失败的例子，令我怀疑自己是否适合恋爱。追寻自由，是我做人的宗旨，这也使到在整个恋爱过程中，无法全心全意去付出，结果还是悲剧收场！也有人跟我说过：“如果你是真心爱她的话，你就会为她去改变。”但对我来说，改变了就不是原来的我了，那不就失去了最真的我？
站在爱情的交叉路口，我真的无法作出选择，因为一旦做出错误的决定，又会有人因此而受伤害。爱与不爱只是一线之差，但这一线之差，却令人多么的矛盾。爱她，却不想告诉她，也许这是对大家最好的决定！
爱一个人不需要拥有，但拥有一个人就要好好珍惜！
（后记：发现自己真的不是很会写感情世界的文章，但还是用简单的方式把它写出来了，虽然没有一点的感动，不过却是自己切切实实的感受。）
06/05/2007
7 comments:
乘着你们都出去时,我上来留言了...这篇文章,到现在我还记得,印象是如此的深刻,因为"那个不太会写文章的人"既然写了一篇让人感动的好文章!
过了几年后,回头再看,那个人已有很大的改变,而让这一切改变的最初,就是这篇文章...*sweet*
hoho，不知道两年后再重读又是怎么一番滋味呢？
Sowee, I came here like an intruder =))
I like this post of uoy...
We grow, we change.
As we grow, we perceive thingy differently.
As we grow, we recognise the true-est "I" within us.
We know ourselves better.
We strive for the love and the person that love us as a person, love us as who we really are.
Sometimes, it's not saying that we don't love him/her. But, the love may just fade away, unnoticable.
gweat post =))
i have a question... this post was sum1 who wrote? izzit lei chong weng? haha =p
Pei Ling: Thanks for leaving a comment here..^^
Max: The article was written by him two years ago. Doesn't sound like him right? Hihi.
haha..yuan lai is this article that make 2 of u 2gether ya. =p hmm...well well well..shall i say, to b satisfy with what u have. =) but he is 感性, i noe tis...
Not because of this la.
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